A Woman Driven To Success

Zenaida Lorenzo...before her, and it wasn't until she shared her trouble
An interesting name, derived from Zenobia, Queen ofwith her friends that she learned that all along, her
the wealthy city of Palmyra in the Arabian Desert, andproblem had been dyslexia. Zenaida persisted in her
in Latin, a feminine form of "Zeus." Indeed a powerfullearning, until she taught herself to read.
name, but quite appropriate for an incredibly self-drivenAt 25, she got a job working for a bankcard system in
woman, rather adequately described by the wordssales, and was the top earner two months in a row.
"motivation" and "prosperity." Zenaida was the #1Her self-esteem rose. In fact, it rose enough to secure
earner in her home business in 2005, though she didn'ta job with a newspaper, also in sales. She lied on her
start off with a silver spoon, didn't have the bestapplication, and said that she had a degree in liberal
education, and generally had a rough time just living asarts from the University of Puerto Rico, where she
she grew up.had moved and lived for a short while.
Zenaida began life in an ethnic neighborhood, primarilyAnd her boyfriend continued to help her. Unbeknownst
Puerto Rican like Zenaida herself, in Dover, Newto her employer, her boyfriend at the time, was writing
Jersey. The family was so poor that there were aall her sales correspondence, then her boss started
few times when she went hungry and had to weardoing it for her, too. By the time he had figured
the same clothes to school more than once. It didn'teverything out, Zenaida was important in the company,
seem to matter then, as many of the families in herand was making a great deal of money for them.
school had similar problems. Poverty was a way ofBut that wasn't the end of Zenaida's career. She
life.decided that she wanted to work for the
"Welfare was much better then," Zenaida remembers.world-renowned publisher Conde Nast, and asked her
But she can still recall coming home to a bareboyfriend to help her get a job with the company. Yet,
cupboard at times. School trips were out, becausehe told her, "I can't keep writing to your clients." In fact,
there was no money for them. There just wasn'the told her she couldn't get another job, until she
money for anything, and many times, not enough forlearned to read and write.
food.So, she set to work. She was determined to learn to
But when she was about seven years old, she movedread, no matter what. First she bought two books
with her single mother and four siblings (another childabout getting higher scores on the SAT--"Princeton
would be added later) to another neighborhood, whichReview Word Smart, Volumes 1 and 2." Her friend and
bordered the Anglo part of town. The most difficulther boss taught her how to speak properly without the
part of that was that she would have to attend anghetto slang, and after work every night, Zenaida
all-Anglo school, a place where it would be extremelywould take an index card and choose a word from
difficult for her to fit in. She went from a school whereeach of the two Princeton books, beginning with the
the student body was 70-80% minority to a schoolletter "A." On the front of the card, she would spell the
where 95% of the kids were Caucasian. In the earlyword, write its phonetic pronunciation, and on the back,
1970s, this was about as different as night and day.its meaning.
The school administrators had no experience withZenaida played games with the cards. She read an
Hispanic children, for one thing, and to make mattersarticle from the "New York Times" each day, which
worse, Zenaida was severely dyslexic, though nobodytook her about forty minutes. If she didn't know a word
seemed to realize it. Her teachers told her mother,that was included in the article, she would look it up in
"There's something wrong with Zenaida," implying thatthe dictionary and then, add an index card for it.
the child was mentally challenged. The fact that herShe got to the letter "P" before stopping her routine.
mother didn't speak English and that there was noShe was finally functionally literate by the time she
father in the house only compounded the issue.was 29.
Zenaida failed her first year in the new school, whichZenaida bolstered her knowledge of history by going
was 2nd grade. She went on to repeat the pattern into the Museum of Modern Art every weekend. She
third, fourth, and fifth grades, as well, without anyonebought audio-taped biographies of the artists, which as
understanding what Zenaida's problem really was. Thewith all good biographies, drew in the history of that
girl was not only alienated from her classmatesperson's time, the culture, the politics, and so on. She
because of race, but because she just had no way ofhung on every word.
getting help with her problems. Her mother just keptAnd she prospered. Her achievements led her to
pushing her ahead because her mother just didn't wantmaking a commercial for then Mayor of New York
her to fail. Zenaida's mother was uneducated, andCity, Rudy Giuliani for the local disabilities center. She
didn't understand the consequences of her decision.also received a proclamation from Mayor Newman of
Yet, dyslexia wasn't Zenaida's only issue. She wasDover, New Jersey for teaching herself to read and
also ADHD--she had attention deficit hyperactivityfor speaking to local high school students about
disorder, a condition that wasn't even recognizeddyslexia, using the theme "Anything is Possible."
during the time Zenaida was growing up. ADHD sendsZenaida also came to excel in business. She was
thoughts through the brain at rapid speed, likened oftenmaking 6 figures a year, and at 34, decided to go back
to a ping-pong ball game going on inside the person'sto college and to continue until she reached an MBA.
head. What ADHD meant for Zenaida was that sheWhen her company was sold in 2003, Zenaida was
was easily distracted and easily bored. Theforced to take a 30% pay cut because there were no
hyperactivity only added to those issues, making itother jobs. Soon, she wasn't meeting her obligations,
very difficult for her to remain still for any length ofand decided that there had to be a better way. She
time.started a home business. In 2005, after less than one
At age 13, Zenaida was not just going to school; sheyear with her home business company, Zenaida was
was working and paying her mother rent. By the timetheir top earner, making close to $1 million in sales.
she got to high school, she was working two jobs toThough Zenaida is an incredible inspiration, and
help support the family.someone worthy of the people that follow her, she
But in high school, Zenaida began to flourish. Her artisticsays, "When I was in my twenties, I was very angry. I
abilities came to light and she began to design her ownwould look at successful people and I always thought
clothing. She even won 2nd place in the school artsthat if I could only read and if I only had an education, I
competition. Then, in her senior year, Zenaida wantedcould have the opportunity to be as successful as
to work in the area where she had found her onlythey are. Today I realize that the reason I am so
success--fashion design, and she tried to get intosuccessful is because of all the disadvantages and
college. Yet, her grades weren't good enough to go todisabilities I had to overcome. They made me strong,
the schools of her choosing. She was functionallypersistent, and gave me the courage to look to
illiterate.alternative businesses. There are so many people who
About that time, Zenaida left home for New York City,today, have every advantage, but they still work for
and she found a video tape of a very old book, oneothers and earn a fraction of what is truly available.
that inspired millions and continues to do soToday, I have total time and financial freedom. My goal
today--Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich." Zenaidais to empower others to see what is available to them,
poured over the book, working very hard toand to help them overcome their self-imposed limits."
comprehend its forceful tenets of focus andIf you were to follow one person toward success in
persistence in the face of resistance. And at 21, shebusiness or in life, Zenaida is certainly a woman to
went back to college.follow. She has helped many people to succeed at the
Her first step was to run down to the local Barnes &same level she has succeeded herself. Today, she's
Noble and pick up a 5th grade reader because sheeager to help more people live the life of financial
was intent upon getting a college degree. She startedfreedom and to make herself the best person she can
to realize how the words jumped around on the pagebe.