Is Your Child Having Trouble in School?

Did you know that the school system is only able tostudents are able to thrive and excel in their learning.
meet 50% of student learning needs?For those students the school environment meets the
Thats right! - only 50% of the student population is inneeds of their learning styles and motivates them
an environment at school which enables them to betowards success in their educational experience. The
successful learners.school system is not bad for these students, it is good.
The reason for this is not because of bad teachers.However the very nature and structure of the school
There are many excellent, dedicated teachers insystem means it is only able to meet the needs of
schools, whose lifes work and passion is to educatesome styles of learning, and personality traits of its
their students to the best of their ability. Teachersstudents. For a fairly large number of students to get
want to see their students successful, that is why theythrough a school day is an achievement in itself.
have given years to training and service. It is not theIntelligence and motivation to learn are not the issue for
fault of the teachers that many students do not reachthem, but the school structure and environment itself.
their potential in learning.An example of such a student was Albert Einstein. He
It is not a result of bad parenting.found school incredibly boring, as the tools of learning in
Many parents spend a great deal of time and energythose days were to do with repeating and learning by
trying to ensure that their children have the bestrote. He learnt more from the reading he did outside of
education possible. Parents help with homework,school, and talking with interesting people he met, than
provide many extra-curricular opportunities and keep infrom school itself. He spent most of the time in his
touch with the teachers and school in order to helpclasses day dreaming. The system had no room for
their child to be successful. However when all is saidcreativity and imagination, or allowing him to learn about
and done, it is the child who needs to be able to learnwhat interested him. There was no provision in his
and pass the curriculum requirements.school system for people who thought differently.
Some parents themselves may have sailed throughMany students today, whose learning styles are not
their own school experience and been successful incatered for in the school system, are prone to be
the academic requirements for graduation, and gonedismissed or labeled as lazy, unfocused, and
on to further education. Isnt it reasonable to expectunintelligent, disorganized, ADHD, or have a learning
that their children would follow the same path anddisability. School for many of these students is an
achieve good grades? For some children, yes it is aendurance test, which some fail. The school
reasonable expectation, and many, of course, doexperience can devastate their self confidence and
follow in their parents footsteps. However this may notself esteem, due to their inability to conform or adapt
be true for every child, even in the same family. I,to the expectations of the system, and those around
myself, was a good student, enjoyed my schoolthem. Yet these same students in later life can
experience and I love to learn. I went on to become abecome very successful because of their
teacher for over twenty years in the school system,entrepreneurial spirit, their creativity, their ability to think
was a Principal of two schools, and successfullyoutside of the box, and view the world from a
pioneered an independent school. All my three childrendifferent perspective.
are intelligent and have been given equal opportunitiesIf your child is having trouble at school, it may not be a
with regard to their education. Out of the three, onlyreflection your parenting, their teacher or the school.
one is following in my footsteps.Your child may be trying to learn in an environment
Was I less diligent with two of my children, didnt I helpthat conflicts with his natural aptitude and learning style.
them? Didnt I give them the support they needed to beFor your child it could be like trying to learn to swim in
successful at school? Of course I did! Were theiran ocean of sand! Look outside of normal
teachers uncaring and unsupportive of their education?expectations, and see the situation through the eyes of
Not at all! The problem is as parents we cant go toyour child. You may be surprised!!! and why not do a
school for them. Sometimes it seems parenting wouldlittle research in to the school experience of Albert
be easier if we could!Einstein, and many other notable figures in our history?
Is the school system bad?I think you might see things from a different
There are many excellent schools, in which someperspective.