| What I am about to tell you may save the
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| | chooses to be silent, let him be silent.
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| life of your child. In this world the
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| | It is okay to have silence. You do not
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| safety and well-being of your teenager
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| | need to speak. He may be processing.
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| depends on his awareness and knowledge of
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| | Give him the time and space he needs to
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| sex.
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| | do what he needs to do. He knows you are
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| It is critical that you, as a
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| | available when he wants to talk.Facts are
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| responsible and loving parent address
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| | key. If he has unanswered questions,
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| that issue in detail. Here are some key
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| | where can he go for accurate information?
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| questions to broach the subject, to let
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| | The streets, his friends, and the media
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| your child know you care and want the
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| | may not be the best place to find what he
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| best for him.Recognize he may be
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| | seeks on the subject of sex.*Be sure you
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| reluctant to speak about something so
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| | ask your child, "Do you know that
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| personal with you if you are not
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| | protection is not a 100% guarantee of
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| accustomed to sharing feelings and
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| | health, safety or an absolute deterrent
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| intimate topics. You may feel embarrassed
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| | to pregnancy?" Be sure he knows the
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| bringing up the subject.
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| | consequences of the actions he may or may
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| Before you do, be sure you can answer
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| | not take.* Follow-up with, "Do you want
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| these questions for yourself. Also,
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| | help or advice in obtaining protection?"
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| decide what you are comfortable sharing
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| | That question is especially important for
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| about your personal experiences and
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| | girls who may want to see a gynecologist
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| beliefs on the subject of teen sexuality
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| | and may not know how to find a good one
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| and activity.*To start, simply ask your
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| | who can take care of her needs.If your
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| teenager, "What kind of questions do you
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| | teen uses the Internet, know that more
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| have or what do you want to know more
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| | than 61,000 searches were done in the
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| about regarding sex?" You will certainly
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| | month of April on phrases dealing with
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| grab his attention.* You may want to
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| | teen pornography. What pages is your
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| throw out some information he is unlikely
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| | child visiting? Ask. Know that if you
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| to know, something like, "Do you know
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| | impose your will he will go elsewhere to
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| that the sex partners you choose can
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| | pursue his desires. Build trust with your
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| influence whether or not you get certain
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| | teenager.The purpose in having this talk
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| types of cancer?"The object here is to
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| | is education. I do not, in any way,
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| get your child talking -- or at least
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| | shape, or form, advocate teen sex.
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| willing to talk. He may tell you he knows
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| | However, statistics show that youngsters
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| everything he needs to know. Where do you
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| | as young as 13 engage in sexual activity.
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| go from there?*Ask, "Do you know that sex
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| | Have the talk now.When hormones and peer
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| is not the same thing as love?" Watch his
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| | pressure kick in, a wise and educated
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| face for acknowledgement, disagreement,
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| | youngster, who has previously given
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| or confusion. Follow up with, "Sex is
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| | thought to and made decisions about his
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| physical. Love is emotional".Listen to
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| | actions, has a better chance of living
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| him. Pay attention to what he says and to
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| | the life he wants than one who has not
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| the words he does not speak. Notice his
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| | prepared himself for the inevitable
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| body language, hear the underlying
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| | emotions and situations that will come up
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| message, the words between the lines, his
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| | in life.Actions and results, desirable
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| tone, word choice and pace. Note his
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| | and undesirable, reflect self esteem. To
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| emotions, eye contact, and whether he is
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| | change behaviors, treat the cause not
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| at ease or trying to conceal any
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| | just the symptoms.What is the cost, to
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| discomfort.If you do observe that he is
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| | you and to him, of not knowing where your
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| uncomfortable, tell him you noticed and
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| | teenager stands on sex?Ali Bierman,
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| ask if he wants to talk about what is
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| | parent, psychotherapist and author of the
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| bothering him. Assure him that you are
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| | popular ebook Parents, You Gotta Ask
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| not here to judge him.
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| | Questions: How To Build Adolescent Self
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| Most importantly, let him know you are
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| | Esteem, poses 14 questions on sex and a
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| having this talk because you love him and
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| | total of 189 questions covering nine
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| no matter what he has done or is thinking
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| | areas of life.
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| about doing, he is safe talking with you.
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